We often remind our readers that all communication is cross cultural. That dynamic might be hard to see until you and your partner celebrate a meaningful family life-cycle event or a traditional holiday celebration. The close proximity of Passover and Easter often provide those opportunities for discovery. Marc and Sandy, a Jewish-Gentile couple, reported just […]
We all tend to judge other cultures as inferior to our own assumptions and core values. The answer to ethnocentrism is to grow our understanding about the assumptions and values of another human being. Do that with mutual respect and you have hope of finding spiritual harmony. Imagine someone whose culture is to drink coffee […]
Tuvya: Ron and Liessa Randle are a Jewish-Gentile couple from St. Louis, MO. Lisa is Jewish, and Ron is African American. They have two adult children and a growing crop of grandchildren. The Randles were married just 11 years after the landmark civil rights decision in the U.S. Supreme Court, Loving vs. Virginia (1967) that […]
Jewish-Gentile couples cite the challenge of finding spiritual harmony as one of their most difficult obstacles to resolve. All spiritual beliefs are formed at the deep core level of personal culture. And while change at that seat of our values comes with difficulty, we are able to learn, grow, and then reform ideas that we […]
Have you seen the meme about the third century bishop and “friend of lovers,” Valentine? He, who was brutally executed by crazy emperor Claudius II, is imagined reacting when he hears how the holiday in his honor is celebrated. “I was beaten with clubs, stoned, beheaded, buried under the cover of darkness disinterred by my followers, and you commemorate my martyrdom by sending each other chocolates?” – Valentine of Interamna, A.D. […]
Martin Luther King, Jr. inspired great social changes through the Civil Right Movement of the 1960s. He challenged, wicked ideas like segregation, based on the injustice of institutionalized racial inequality. Read how Dr. King’s vision moved Mildred and Richard Loving to challenge laws barring interracial marriage in 1967.
Ever wonder if there are any resources out there to help you resolve your family’s cultural tensions during the winter holiday season? Here are some useful suggestions to help you out!
One of the biggest challenges that Jewish-Gentile couples face is friction over how to raise children. Whether this is uncharted territory or a familiar struggle for you, we offer some practical resources.
As an interfaith couple, one or both of you may have experienced moments of feeling unwelcome within the other’s community. We want to help you navigate these cross-cultural challenges.
Even when your partner just gets you in ways that no one else does, there might be one nagging issue on which you two can’t seem to agree: faith. We want to help you create a safe space from which to start the journey towards spiritual harmony.
